So now on to progress news for the home study. What is happening now? Well we officially submitted the packet and it was received by our agency last Thursday. Friday they called to schedule our individual interviews. Those are basically to get to know us and the things about us that could be potential strong points to match us (or steer us away) from certain birthmoms. They work hard to not put your profile out to birthmoms whose feelings or beliefs strongly conflict with ours. For instance, say the birthmom isn't a fan of a certain thing, like maybe she is Jewish and doesn't want her child raised in a non-Jewish home. Well we wouldn't be a good fit for her, so they probably would not show her our profile, unless that was something either us or her were willing to give on. If that makes sense. The interviews make me a little nervous! But I love our social worker so much, so I think that will make it much more relaxed. After this, they come to our house and talk to us together and do the official home visit. I BEG you to please pray for us through these next few steps. These are were they are heavily reviewing both us, our home, and our paperwork. Pray that not only is everything in order, but that it goes smoothly and quickly. I am ready to be officially waiting! And that will happen when this is all approved. We are literally just a few weeks away from being a "waiting family" if all goes well. I am beyond over the moon...I am over Saturn! :) When we are official, birthmoms can start looking at us! Ahhhh!!! I am sure I will be a wreck and venting on here quite a bit, so I thank you in advance for putting up with me.
One exciting thing I did do recently was pick out my nursery furniture. I am in love with it and can't wait to get it. I would also like to express my love for the sweet lady at All About Baby. When she found out we were adopting, she looked so sweetly at me and said I know how expensive it is and I want to help. She offered us a discount on the furniture and said she would make bedding as affordable as she could. This lady didn't know me at all and opened up her heart and her pocketbook basically because this is her business that she uses to make a living. Just made my heart sing and my eyes well up with tears that people can be such dolls. Needless to say if I can at all afford to do it, I will buy those things from her and anything else I can. God has worked through her to bless me, and I will bless her back as much as I can. Below is the picture of it. I love it because it will grow with the baby and actually not look like too much of a little baby room as the grow up and use it as a full size bed.
Well that's about it...well not really. I still want to talk cookbooks and my new candles that I hope will turn out great....and thank everyone again, but I am beat. Don't mind telling you that staying up until nearly midnight and then getting up before 5am and staying on my feet all day move beds, tables, mattresses, and working the sale/baking/cooking hot dogs wore me out!! Michael, Hef and Coco are all already snoring beside me :) My sweet little family is just dog tired! So I am cutting it off and going to curl up beside them and say many many prayers of thanks for the miracle that happened today. I love you all so much and I thank you from the tippy toppy to the very bottom of my heart for it all.
Hugs, Kisses, & Skittles (because they are awesome!)
Misty
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